I have this friend lets call her Sally. I don't want to give out to much info on who she is, all want to do is to share her problem. Shes a nice girl, shes somewhat like me. Acts and says that "heck things don't bother me" and "i couldn't care much, not my problem." & always uses my fave word of all time Bullshit, HAHA jk. Lately, I've noticed that all she can do is frown or fake a smile. As a friend i was a tad bit concern.
SO, we had a little chat.
She said she liked this someone. And i was like GOOD GOOD. and she said she knows that if you like someone its not necessary for the person to like you back. She understands tht very well. She also explained that she has grown to like this guy even more. She even said it was possible for her to SAYANG the dude. and i was like whoa, that's deep. She had a few runs with the guy, and the guy was really responding well to her . As you could guess, she liked the guy even more. I was like haha! typical. We're girls. Go figure. Well, i knew all this joy wasn't a contributor to her mopey self now.Asked her to cut to the chase , and I continued listening to her dilemma. Soon She found out that the guy liked her too. She was ECSTATIC upon the news. Their 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS' type of relationship continued on and on and on -dont think dirty aite-. Until she got tired of it, cuz the dude was like BIPOLAR (not literally), what i mean is she said she didnt understand the guy. Sally has a close friend that she trusts, who is a girl, that was kind of close to the guy that she likes. Lets call her AZRA. Azra asked tht SOMEONE, whts wrong with him. Azra clearly said to tht SOMEONE tht 'you should not toy with peoples feelings, and dont lead her on.if you dont like LIKE her.' The SOMEONE said tht 'i didnt say i didnt like LIKE her, i sort of do' he continued 'why dont you tell SALLY that she should find someone else'. Their convo ended there (azra&the someone). THUS, AZRA AND SALLY BOTH WERE CLUELESS on what to do. haha, me upon hearing tht was sorta confused. Haih, Gila punya laki ! haha.
SALLY's friends said that she should just find someone else. SALLY told me, she didnt want to be pathetic but how could she learn to like someone else when she really really likes that SOMEONE. Don't get me wrong, SALLY AND THAT SOMEONE are still friends and they still like each other [kot]. HAHA. She said that she could move on but the thing that makes her really sad is, if she goes, she would never be able to actually experience all the great times that could've been between her and tht SOMEONE. In my brain i was like, DAMN thats sad & wey jgn lah camtu sgt. BUT BUT BUT, i cant help but agree on that. Cuz its true.
SALLY has been too strong for too long
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My bet is THT SOMEONE is just scared of losing SALLY as a friend or hes just an asshole.
Conslusion is, everyone is scared.
Although you are, you should never be condemned by tht feeling. Life is short.
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You'll never know wht you got till its gone.
SO,what do you guys think??